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Indianporn Videos Watch Video Sexxy naked. Picture with an almost-cropped out girl in it. Photos of you with girls in them have been shown to perform worse on dating sites. Because a girl's going to look at the girl in your picture and immediately either decide a. So how, then, do you come up with a way of taking advantage of the benefits of preselection - that powerful attraction force to beat all attraction forces that states that women want most the men that other women also want? Back in , I came up with the perfect solution for it: That looks like this:. You're going for the "cropped as well as I could" look in the image - e. A few tips:. Make sure the pictures look affectionate but ambiguous - e. Pick a photo you still look good in, too - not just any old thing. Some of the hottest, sexiest girls I've met off of online dating I've met with this type of photograph up. I've even had girls specifically ask about it Picture of you doing something really cool. That could be on some wonder of the world my profiles have always included a picture of me on Machu Picchu or at Angkor Wat , surfing, playing guitar, skateboarding, singing on a microphone on-stage What you're going for: Picture of you with an animal. That OkCupid data review found that the men's profile picture themes that received the highest number of responses from women of any photo theme were those of men with animals. No kidding. If you want the highest possible number of responses from women, get a picture with an animal. Guesses as to why? Research has shown that women are pretty much born with a high dose of empathy, but for men this has to be learned one way of learning it, interestingly enough, is by taking care of a pet. So maybe women are picking more empathetic men The ab shot. Only if you actually have abs to show off, of course. But, according to that OkCupid study, being shirtless and showing off your muscles in your profile picture nets you almost as many responses from women as a picture of you with an animal though quite possibly from categorically different kinds of women. Of course, if you have a good male physique to show off, you might want to combine a shot of that with you, say, playing Frisbee with your dog down by the ocean. There's abs, animals, and something interesting all in one shot. That's one profile picture, and two additional pictures. I'll tell you this. I have experimented with ALL SORT of combinations - including some with tons and tons of pictures - and this one has worked best most consistently. The only one that's beaten it has been when I've set up test profiles with a sole profile picture of one very physically attractive male model, and no other pictures. This one's worked very well on POF If girls look at your extra pictures and think, "Oh. He was cute in his main picture," then don't include them. For the rest of us with more pedestrian looks: When I had professional pictures done, my results on Plenty of Fish and every other dating website and social networking website I was on and used for dating went through the roof. I've heard similar stories from a lot of guys doing online. Why do these make such a difference? Part of it's the quality of the image itself; good cameras take good pictures. But a bigger part is the photographer: A good photographer can take a flattering picture of you even if you aren't all that flattering to behold normally. Put together:. Where do you find such a photographer? What if you don't have the money for a professional shoot? That typically includes several wardrobe changes and about an hour of shoot time or so. But there's a hidden secret for getting your pictures taken absolutely FREE of charge. Know what it is? In most major cities, there are far more people who want to become professional photographers than there are professional photographers. And the people who are still working on their careers in photography work on these mainly by building up their portfolios; that is to say, putting together collections of images they've taken of various models people. In exchange for your modeling services, and your permission to use your photographs in their portfolios, they will normally offer you finished versions of a bunch of the best pictures they take of you free of charge. The easiest way to find aspiring photographers looking for models to take pictures of in exchange for copies of those pictures is to head over to Craig's List and browse through the "Gigs" section, "Talent" subsection - what you're looking for are gigs labeled "TFP" "Time for Pictures" or "TFCD" "Time for CD" - a CD with your photographs burned onto it. Remember that YOU are the "model" here. Then just write to some photographers, send them copies of the best photographs you currently have of you, and wait to hear back. These posts tend to get more requests from people wanting free pictures than the photographers offering them can serve, but if you keep replying to different gigs for a week or two, you'll find someone who will take your pictures and provide you with copies. The website Model Mayhem is another way of finding photographers willing to take pictures to build their portfolios, but it helps if you already have some professional pictures done But still - it's pretty important. Many women will NEVER read your profile when deciding whether or not to respond to your first message. They will only ever see your:. A lot of the women who write back to you will not check out your profile until AFTER they get their second or third messages from you. The ones who check your profile out before responding the first time are very often ones who've already decided that they think they're interested in you, too. In other words, what you're doing with your profile is reassuring her she made the right call to be interested in you , rather than trying to win over someone who's on the fence about you. That should color how you set your profile up quite a bit. I know what you're thinking, the first time you open up that profile editor on POF: Remember, women don't go nuts for guys who just lay out everything about themselves for the whole world to read like a boring factsheet. They prefer men who are:. If you go for the "Hey, I'm Mr. Perfect, and here's everything to know about me! Your challenge: Sound hard? Let's add some rules that will make it sound harder but actually be easier:. Can you violate some of these rules? I've had profiles do very well that came out to about three or four paragraphs often broken down further into smaller one- or two-sentence paragraphs for a total of 5 or 6 line breaks. But the majority of my best profiles - and the majority of the best men's profiles I've seen - have been two paragraphs. If you need it, you can add ONE sentence after the second paragraph. That's it. That's your challenge. How often have you read a girl's profile and thought to yourself, "If only she would tell me what her favorite food was, and what movies she liked best"? This guy's total message count ever? He's obviously trying to change the world by telling other people they need to start doing what he wants them to do, and is otherwise just depressing One doth not showcase boring things like 'favorite TV shows' or 'favorite songs' or 'jobs' that everybody has and no one has ever gotten excited about finding out someone else shares in the history of Plenty of Fish. One doth not be depressing, rude, insulting, or sound as if he is about to quit on life and retreat into his parents' basement, where he shall abide for the remainder of his time on Earth. One doth not write about his sexual prowess, conquests, or bedroom or woman-getting abilities of any kind, lest he be thought compensating for being in possession of a remarkably small penis by all women encountering his profile. Best thing you can do to get as many women writing back as possible on your profile? Mention you're foreign, and have just arrived. I've gotten similar replies in other countries there. And in the U. The London account received 4 times as many messages. Most of these messages to my English gentleman profile were akin to, "Welcome to the U. Some didn't even want to message banter, they just handed out their phone numbers straight away and instructed me to call them. That's never happened to me in the U. Still living in your home country and will mostly be meeting your countrywomen? No problem The next contender after this is having just gotten out of a long-term relationship. Again, you're a catch with some potential, and there's a very valid reason why you're there. Why are these items so good to include in your profile? They usually won't ask you this outright though some will ask "So why are you on POF? You can see it in women's profiles; the most attractive of them are constantly writing things like, "lol, I don't even do online dating, but my friend made me set up this account on a bet, so whatever, let's see what happens. Forget all that nonsense about online dating being "accepted"; the most beautiful women rarely use it for long, because it's too easy for them to meet high caliber men offline. Online is still usually a den of second-rate mating options The guy who's "just broken up and getting my social circles built back up again" is next in line. Women want to know you have a good reason for being single and trying online dating. They want to "catch" you during that rare window of singledom. Because, just like employers hate hiring anyone who's been unemployed longer than 6 months, women hate dating men who've been single for a long time and having to actively go looking for women instead of having them come to him Resettled here for a new line of work and a new life It's been a while since I was on Plenty of Fish another lifetime ago , but I met some fantastic people here before and a few not so fantastic ones, of course , and I can't think of a better way to get started anew in a new hometown. I make music, write, and am a seeker of truth and searcher out of adventure. Recently back from my first trip to South America - there is a very special place. What I'm using POF to find: This is the standard template that my profiles generally follow these days. Here's what it's doing:. The first two sentences of the profile build the intrigue and mystery Why does he need a fresh start? Where on the other side of the country is he from, exactly? The next sentence, about people met on POF before, establish preselection and social proof; he's not one of these bitter people who meets only crazies off of the Internet - in fact, he's had success here before, which means he must be attractive enough to get some girls. The first two sentences of the second paragraph flesh out his personality a bit, as an artist and an adventurer. This narrows the field down a bit; women who aren't in search of passion and adventure will be turned off The final sentence of the profile is screening; it lets the reader know that he has standards and is looking for something specific; but the standards are sufficiently vague here that they function like a cold read , and just about every woman who read this will say, "Wow - that's me, exactly! This profile is not going to win you any awards, nor is it going to get you a lot of girls messaging you on their own. What it does do is provide a solid support for your pictures and first message, so that a girl who's intrigued, on checking out your profile, leaves even more intrigued. Here's another variant on a profile I've used with some good effect - this one requires you have a bit more interesting things to throw out there about yourself:. My name's David, I've just moved to town from Philadelphia, and am soaking in all the palm trees and beaches and am absolutely in love. A bit about me: I'm hoping to find someone on here who enjoys a good conversation about people, relationships, what makes you tick, what makes me tick, anything interesting along those lines - human beings are my special fascination. I like a good spot of tea and am a bit of a sucker for dessert - so if we go out, or if you're showing me about town, we'll need to be careful about those dessert places if I'm to keep my waistline nice and trim. This one's obvious a different feel from the first - this is the typical "high value guy" profile, in contrast to our "mysterious man with a troubled past" profile from before. If you're younger, "mysterious man" likely suits you better; if you're older, "high value guy" likely does, instead. Direct and straightforward - strong traits he gives you his name, tells you where he's from, but it's sort of an aside to the main message of the sentence. An out-of-towner, but he's thrilled to be here local folks who love their town want to make sure they're spending time with others who similarly like it. Has a good career, probably, but doesn't boast about it or try to use it to gain points; "my career is in numbers" is the kind of very vague thing that usually only a very wealthy individual who doesn't want to admit to being VP of a Fortune company will say, so it builds some intrigue as to whether this guy is a rich guy or not and exactly what it is that he does. Talking about the kind of conversation he wants to have makes it clear he won't be talking about boring stuff like work, sports, the weather, etc. Saying he likes a "good spot of tea" makes him sound different "Is he British? THIS guy I can relate to! Daisy needed her attention piqued with all the attention she was getting. She needed to be chased, clearly: I hate to say it…But I think a fair proportion of those men who messaged Daisy had every intention of pursuing it further. Even in the few examples I showed, the guys are not terrible. Look at some more examples. I just picked these 2 at random. There are many more: I am astonished at how many guys sincerely pursued Daisy. I had no idea male thirst was anywhere near as bad as this. To entertain sleeping with a girl like that.. And yet, large numbers of normal — good looking men earnestly pursued her. It hardly bears thinking about. When I posted the video on Youtube of the Tinder Trap stunt, the comments I got far exceed a normal recent video. There are a lot of great articles on this site — read them. Success IS still possible — even off online dating. But overall, you just have to cold approach. There is really no other way of cutting through all the male attention that girls get nowadays. A good , strong approach where you make an immediate impression, create sexual tension will put you way in front of the competition. Well, any fool can send a message online or photoshop his Tinder pics. But hardly anyone can approach in real life. You can subcommunicate your REAL value when you approach, not just how pretty you look in pictures. Think about your attempts at Tinder. Of course not. Start with my book Primal Seduction , and go from there. Male thirst is not going anywhere, and neither is the skewed sexual marketplace. Getting angry about it will do you no good and will make you bitter. Can you guess what photo this is? Women holding a full mickey of vodka or having a 1L bottle of alcohol being poured down their neck is a real No No. This photo may be the one and only random photo you took of yourself at a special occasion last month. So there you have just a few examples of some of the worst online dating profile photos you could use as your main photo when you are dating online. Carmelia Ray is an online dating and matchmaking expert with over 22 years of experience in the dating industry. She is a public speaker, author and an IDCA certified dating coach. Carmelia has personally interviewed over 60, singles and helped over 7, clients with their search to finding, meeting and keeping someone special. I received a message from a guy no photo! What is he hiding! Tks love this site. I wonder if POF women realize how they shoot themselves in the foot with their profiles. Must be: If guys put into their profiles all the shallow crap that women put into theirs, dating sites would all shut down tomorrow..

Start with my book Primal Seductionand go from there. Male thirst is not going anywhere, and neither is the skewed sexual marketplace. Getting angry about it Hot pof profiles do you no good and will Hot pof profiles you bitter.

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She is the female manifestation of their low self esteems. Think about that shit for a second. I feel bad for her then. Red Pill Issues. The results were shocking! I gave her a repugnant personality, and very little detail in her profile.

Meet DaisyDukes Perhaps Daisy redeemds herself with an excellent profile? Remember, Daisy was not online during the 24 hour experiment. Daisys profile had literally hundreds Hot pof profiles profile views: Messages Received In total, Daisy received 38 messages during the 24 hour period without ever logging in. Look at the timestamps on these messages just as I logged in: The Messages: What did they say?

If Daisy messaged back and arranged a date, they would turn up. Conclusion of the profile Hot pof profiles Recently, I decided to search online as a male seeking female from the age of 25 — To my surprise, I actually thought women would do a little better than the men with choosing their primary profile photo. To my unpleasant surprised, I Hot pof profiles that women and men are making read article online dating profile photo mistakes.

I invite you to take a look at your current profile Hot pof profiles and ask yourself if the shoe fits…. Group photos of women taken with a bunch of other girls, is also super annoying. This is a profile photo where there is a Hot pof profiles object such as a cell phone, hat, another person or hand partially covering your face.

Guys who have a better view of the make and model of the cell phone you have, instead of your eye color, might also choose to pass you by. Women who are single moms do have success and opportunities online, but advertising you and your kids on your main profile photo may limit the opportunity for men to want to Hot pof profiles to know you. The Dirty Cam Shot. Although men are quite visual when it comes to women, they can also be very judgmental. Choose an outfit that is fun, put together, and represents your personal sense of style.

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Then snap away! I describe these photos as the ones of you ladies lying in bed, without make up on, hair Hot pof profiles and it looks like you took a selfie of yourself rolling out of bed. No - your picture is everything. If you don't have a good one, you will not get girls on Plenty of Fish.

Online, you don't have things like body languagenonverbal communicationor even a good male scent to help tip the scales in your favor. Instead, it's eyeballs-only - what you see is what you get. That means that looks do matter a lot more on Plenty of Fish than they do in real life, where there are plenty of other things involved in assessing attractiveness.

In space, no one can hear you scream, and on POF, no one can feel your sexiness. It's photos and the words in your profile, and that's it. Look Hot pof profiles the difference in men's odds click getting a response from women based on their profile Hot pof profiles Clearly, non-smiling, eye-contact-away pictures are the best pictures you can use.

That's pictures that look more like these:. My all-time best performing profile picture catches me just as I'm pulling on a suit jacket, looking Hot pof profiles and away a bit, not too dissimilar to the guy in the image on the top right.

Hot pof profiles, I can tell you this: When Hot pof profiles staring at them, they tend to quickly avert their gazes, not wanting to be seen looking. Gut instinct? She feels like she's getting to check you out and explore you without you knowing when you're looking Hot pof profiles. While the photo with you staring dead at her feels higher pressure And just in case you're curious, for men, the trend is reversed - women making eye contact and flirty faces get significantly higher response from us fellas than women averting their gazes do.

In addition to not smiling and looking away no eye contactthere are five 5 other things you can do to spice up the pictures you'll use on Plenty of Fish:. This is a general picture-taking rule that you want to use in all of your pictures.

Tube8 shop Watch Video Nude tenn. I've gotten similar replies in other countries there. And in the U. The London account received 4 times as many messages. Most of these messages to my English gentleman profile were akin to, "Welcome to the U. Some didn't even want to message banter, they just handed out their phone numbers straight away and instructed me to call them. That's never happened to me in the U. Still living in your home country and will mostly be meeting your countrywomen? No problem The next contender after this is having just gotten out of a long-term relationship. Again, you're a catch with some potential, and there's a very valid reason why you're there. Why are these items so good to include in your profile? They usually won't ask you this outright though some will ask "So why are you on POF? You can see it in women's profiles; the most attractive of them are constantly writing things like, "lol, I don't even do online dating, but my friend made me set up this account on a bet, so whatever, let's see what happens. Forget all that nonsense about online dating being "accepted"; the most beautiful women rarely use it for long, because it's too easy for them to meet high caliber men offline. Online is still usually a den of second-rate mating options The guy who's "just broken up and getting my social circles built back up again" is next in line. Women want to know you have a good reason for being single and trying online dating. They want to "catch" you during that rare window of singledom. Because, just like employers hate hiring anyone who's been unemployed longer than 6 months, women hate dating men who've been single for a long time and having to actively go looking for women instead of having them come to him Resettled here for a new line of work and a new life It's been a while since I was on Plenty of Fish another lifetime ago , but I met some fantastic people here before and a few not so fantastic ones, of course , and I can't think of a better way to get started anew in a new hometown. I make music, write, and am a seeker of truth and searcher out of adventure. Recently back from my first trip to South America - there is a very special place. What I'm using POF to find: This is the standard template that my profiles generally follow these days. Here's what it's doing:. The first two sentences of the profile build the intrigue and mystery Why does he need a fresh start? Where on the other side of the country is he from, exactly? The next sentence, about people met on POF before, establish preselection and social proof; he's not one of these bitter people who meets only crazies off of the Internet - in fact, he's had success here before, which means he must be attractive enough to get some girls. The first two sentences of the second paragraph flesh out his personality a bit, as an artist and an adventurer. This narrows the field down a bit; women who aren't in search of passion and adventure will be turned off The final sentence of the profile is screening; it lets the reader know that he has standards and is looking for something specific; but the standards are sufficiently vague here that they function like a cold read , and just about every woman who read this will say, "Wow - that's me, exactly! This profile is not going to win you any awards, nor is it going to get you a lot of girls messaging you on their own. What it does do is provide a solid support for your pictures and first message, so that a girl who's intrigued, on checking out your profile, leaves even more intrigued. Here's another variant on a profile I've used with some good effect - this one requires you have a bit more interesting things to throw out there about yourself:. My name's David, I've just moved to town from Philadelphia, and am soaking in all the palm trees and beaches and am absolutely in love. A bit about me: I'm hoping to find someone on here who enjoys a good conversation about people, relationships, what makes you tick, what makes me tick, anything interesting along those lines - human beings are my special fascination. I like a good spot of tea and am a bit of a sucker for dessert - so if we go out, or if you're showing me about town, we'll need to be careful about those dessert places if I'm to keep my waistline nice and trim. This one's obvious a different feel from the first - this is the typical "high value guy" profile, in contrast to our "mysterious man with a troubled past" profile from before. If you're younger, "mysterious man" likely suits you better; if you're older, "high value guy" likely does, instead. Direct and straightforward - strong traits he gives you his name, tells you where he's from, but it's sort of an aside to the main message of the sentence. An out-of-towner, but he's thrilled to be here local folks who love their town want to make sure they're spending time with others who similarly like it. Has a good career, probably, but doesn't boast about it or try to use it to gain points; "my career is in numbers" is the kind of very vague thing that usually only a very wealthy individual who doesn't want to admit to being VP of a Fortune company will say, so it builds some intrigue as to whether this guy is a rich guy or not and exactly what it is that he does. Talking about the kind of conversation he wants to have makes it clear he won't be talking about boring stuff like work, sports, the weather, etc. Saying he likes a "good spot of tea" makes him sound different "Is he British? THIS guy I can relate to! Quantity goes up; quality goes down. Some of these girls you will be able to change the vibe with and steer it toward something more intimate; some of them you never will, because they came out to be entertained by you, not to be seduced. That said, it's still an effective profile for meeting LOTS of girls in a hurry and taking a healthy chunk of them as lovers and as girlfriends; for that one, see this post I've made about it on the discussion boards: Chase's Guide to Online Dating Aside from your profile itself, there are a few other considerations that are very important to you building a profile with big impact: Sorry about that. Your headline is arguably more important than your profile content itself. It's your advertisement. In the world of writing articles on the Internet, common advice is to spend half as much time writing your title as you do writing the actual article itself. Basically, anything that is not sultry, arrogant, or mysterious is out. If you sound platonic just friends , raunchy turns men on, scares off women , or lovelorn needy, desperate guy who fails with women , she'll be turned off. I recommend testing out different headlines. If you're really an experimenter, I'd recommend testing out different profiles with different headlines and pictures in multiple different cities you don't ever visit first and finding what works best, and then taking the best results of these and using them in your hometown. Other profile details I'd recommend you largely leave blank. Long profiles with lots of details look like something you put a great deal of time into constructing; thus, readers of your profile assume that you're not a very in-demand man with little free time on his hands to spend, say, chasing down new women. Even though it really takes you only a few extra minutes, it doesn't matter; this is the psychological effect seeing a bunch more details has. She assumes you got excited at the opportunity to share all these things about yourself with Internet strangers, which strong guys with lots of girls and abundant friends do not. Put either something generic in your profile e. But whatever you write here, make sure you suggest something specific. Far too many women ask guys what they want to do on dates, only to have those guys reply with, "I don't know; what do you want to do?! If she asked you, it isn't because it's a test, or because she's being nice; it's because she doesn't want the burden of having to figure this out. You're the man; you must lead. Show her dating you will be a relaxing, enjoyable, decision-free experience for her, and you'll get positive responses from women. If you're breathtakingly gorgeous-looking, you may get a handful of messages to your profile based on looks alone. But on Plenty of Fish, the messaging done by women to men - even the most stunningly attractive of men - is far less than what it is on a number of other dating sites. No matter how great your pictures are and how tight your profile is, you're more or less going to have to be doing the initiating yourself. There are loads and loads of people on it, because there are so many people on it broader pool of mates to draw from and because it's free. That means lots of women for you to reach out to for dates When I first started playing around with online dating in , I went in with something of an entitlement mentality: That's great and all, except Because online is a whole 'nother ballpark. If you're good at strutting your stuff in person, the women on POF don't know that. And if girls are practically clawing your clothes off every time you step outside the door in real life, the women on POF don't know that. The only thing they know are pictures, headlines, maybe your profile if they even read it If you want to stand out from the crowd, you need good messages, and you need good subject lines for those messages. I set up a female profile on Plenty of Fish a few years back, just to see what the response was like. I chose a pretty blonde girl for this account's profile picture, and then I wrote her profile as basically the meanest, pickiest bitch on POF In a manner of 10 hours or so, my snobby, entitled young female alter ego received 40 messages from potential suitors. And the messages kept coming. I went to bed, and woke up the next day to find another 20 messages had filtered in overnight. Form messages from men who obviously hadn't read the profile, and were obviously mass-spamming any girl who looked reasonably attractive to them. I would LOVE to go to a punk music concert!!! A few witty retorts "Look here honey, you think you're some hot stuff, but in case you weren't paying attention, punk is so s. Several guys just throwing their phone numbers out there, or asking to get a number back "Oh, you like punk? Give me your phone number and let's talk about it". A handful of guys offering the best sex ever enjoyed by anybody in the history of life on Earth, or telling me what a naughty girl I was and how they were going to discipline me with their cocks. Out of all those messages I read, I don't think there's a single one I would've responded back to had I actually been a girl. Your first order of business with any online dating message writing is writing a gripping subject line. She gets 30 to 50 messages a day on Plenty of Fish. Maybe her first day or so on there she opens every message, but once she's been on the site more than a few days, she's mostly just skimming through for interesting-looking subject lines at that point. Fail to make your subject line interesting, and you fail to even get a message read - let alone a reply back. Here's what gripping is: The best of these I've found are subject lines that start a statement but don't finish it. This includes:. What you're going for here is 1. NOT making her wonder if the message is going to be from a hater who's bitter that she's out of her league and is trying to bring her down e. These are just some I've used. I'd strongly encourage you come up with your own intriguing lead-ins , rather than using these verbatim But these far and away do the job of getting girls to at least open up and read the contents of your messages better than anything else I've seen or used, because they're different and because a girl's natural reaction is to see them and say, "What? I have to know! The hard part's almost over. The only thing left for you to do is get her to write you back. To do that, you'll need a good first message that ISN'T as terrible as I've never been able to figure it out. Do men on secret Internet dating forums somewhere I've never come across urge one another to send random women penis pictures as some kind of secretive rite of passage? I always just assumed it was guys addicted to porn who just assumed women must find nudie pictures of strangers' packages equally as titillating as they do I guess? Anyway, it's no more effective on POF than it is walking up to a pretty girl in a nightclub or on the street or at work or in class and whipping out your erection there is, either. In other words, not only does this work out, but it creeps women the heck out and sends them running for the hills. James Bond does not send penis pictures, even if women ask him for them. If women want to see James Bond's penis, they must come meet him in person, and in private. Assuming you're casting the net wide , to get as many women as possible writing back to you, you want to focus on sending a message that comes across cool, socially savvy, and easy to write back to. BODY I've noticed people who like cats and sushi have strange affinities for all things hipster. What you're going for with these types of messages is for her to smile, roll her eyes, and go, "Oh my GOD that is so ridiculous! She's already doing online dating right now she's logged into POF and reading through her messages, after all , so this plays right into what you're doing. The only thing you need to change with these message templates are the items in bold. However, if you say, "I hear people who like running and whack-a-mole," it IS funny, because those things are totally unrelated In the second sentence, pick out an attribute of hers from her profile; something that isn't "beautiful" or "fun. You're including a smiley mid-message to let her know it's all fun and games, not one of those weird over-serious messages she gets from a lot of guys. They refer to things in her profile, which makes them clearly NOT form letters to just be ignored. The fact that you like cats and sushi drove that one home for me. I've been under a rock for a while, but it's time to start exploring. The response rate you'll get to a message like this is far lower , but the initial responses you'll get are far warmer than what you'll get with the other template. Essentially, a girl read this, and says, "Well, the message is only slightly interesting," then if she's somewhat interested checks out your profile and other pictures. I did nothing to get additional traffic to my profile. I simply created it, and logged back in 24 hours later. In total, Daisy received 38 messages during the 24 hour period without ever logging in. Depressingly, when I logged in to take screenshots for this post, the messages starting flying thick and fast. I kid you not — each time I refreshed I had at least one new message. Mostly it was just hey, how are you? There were a few departures from this standard script. After all, she had 38 messages to pore through and many more when she logged in — so as men we need to stand out from the crowd! This guy opted for a more persistent approach. Daisy needed her attention piqued with all the attention she was getting. She needed to be chased, clearly: I hate to say it…But I think a fair proportion of those men who messaged Daisy had every intention of pursuing it further. Even in the few examples I showed, the guys are not terrible. Look at some more examples. I just picked these 2 at random. There are many more: I am astonished at how many guys sincerely pursued Daisy. I had no idea male thirst was anywhere near as bad as this. To entertain sleeping with a girl like that.. And yet, large numbers of normal — good looking men earnestly pursued her. It hardly bears thinking about. When I posted the video on Youtube of the Tinder Trap stunt, the comments I got far exceed a normal recent video. There are a lot of great articles on this site — read them. Success IS still possible — even off online dating. But overall, you just have to cold approach. 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This one's worked very well on POF If girls look at your extra pictures and think, "Oh. He was cute in his main picture," then don't include them. For the rest of us with more pedestrian looks: When I had professional pictures done, my results on Plenty of Fish and every other dating website and social networking website I was on and used for dating went through the roof. I've heard similar stories from a lot of guys doing online. Why do these make such a difference? Part of it's the quality of the image itself; good cameras take good pictures. But a bigger part is the photographer: A good photographer can take a flattering picture of you even if you aren't all that flattering to behold normally. Put together:. Where do you find such a photographer? What if you don't have the money for a professional shoot? That typically includes several wardrobe changes and about an hour of shoot time or so. But there's a hidden secret for getting your pictures taken absolutely FREE of charge. Know what it is? In most major cities, there are far more people who want to become professional photographers than there are professional photographers. And the people who are still working on their careers in photography work on these mainly by building up their portfolios; that is to say, putting together collections of images they've taken of various models people. In exchange for your modeling services, and your permission to use your photographs in their portfolios, they will normally offer you finished versions of a bunch of the best pictures they take of you free of charge. The easiest way to find aspiring photographers looking for models to take pictures of in exchange for copies of those pictures is to head over to Craig's List and browse through the "Gigs" section, "Talent" subsection - what you're looking for are gigs labeled "TFP" "Time for Pictures" or "TFCD" "Time for CD" - a CD with your photographs burned onto it. Remember that YOU are the "model" here. 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Still living in your home country and will mostly be meeting your countrywomen? No problem The next contender after this is having just gotten out of a long-term relationship. Again, you're a catch with some potential, and there's a very valid reason why you're there. Why are these items so good to include in your profile? They usually won't ask you this outright though some will ask "So why are you on POF? You can see it in women's profiles; the most attractive of them are constantly writing things like, "lol, I don't even do online dating, but my friend made me set up this account on a bet, so whatever, let's see what happens. Forget all that nonsense about online dating being "accepted"; the most beautiful women rarely use it for long, because it's too easy for them to meet high caliber men offline. Online is still usually a den of second-rate mating options The guy who's "just broken up and getting my social circles built back up again" is next in line. 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In addition to not smiling and looking away no eye contact , there are five 5 other things you can do to spice up the pictures you'll use on Plenty of Fish:. This is a general picture-taking rule that you want to use in all of your pictures. When selecting pictures, make sure you pick pictures with contrast. Plenty of Fish is blue, white, black, and gray. Pick pictures - and especially profile pictures - that visually stand out against this backdrop. You want clear, crisp, and vibrant, not dull, hazy, and blent in. Notice 2? Don't your eyes go right there immediately? Regardless of whether she's your "type" or not, you notice her because her picture isn't boring or low quality-looking like the other three pictures are. She avoids "profile blindness" by having a picture that stands out from the pack. She's also making that flirty face that men respond best to. You want pictures that pop as much as 'someone hacked my other account's does minus the flirty face to be your profile pictures - and, ideally, to be all the rest of your pictures, too. Picture with an almost-cropped out girl in it. Photos of you with girls in them have been shown to perform worse on dating sites. Because a girl's going to look at the girl in your picture and immediately either decide a. So how, then, do you come up with a way of taking advantage of the benefits of preselection - that powerful attraction force to beat all attraction forces that states that women want most the men that other women also want? Back in , I came up with the perfect solution for it: That looks like this:. You're going for the "cropped as well as I could" look in the image - e. A few tips:. Make sure the pictures look affectionate but ambiguous - e. Pick a photo you still look good in, too - not just any old thing. Some of the hottest, sexiest girls I've met off of online dating I've met with this type of photograph up. I've even had girls specifically ask about it Picture of you doing something really cool. That could be on some wonder of the world my profiles have always included a picture of me on Machu Picchu or at Angkor Wat , surfing, playing guitar, skateboarding, singing on a microphone on-stage What you're going for: Picture of you with an animal. That OkCupid data review found that the men's profile picture themes that received the highest number of responses from women of any photo theme were those of men with animals. No kidding. If you want the highest possible number of responses from women, get a picture with an animal. Guesses as to why? Research has shown that women are pretty much born with a high dose of empathy, but for men this has to be learned one way of learning it, interestingly enough, is by taking care of a pet. So maybe women are picking more empathetic men The ab shot. Only if you actually have abs to show off, of course. But, according to that OkCupid study, being shirtless and showing off your muscles in your profile picture nets you almost as many responses from women as a picture of you with an animal though quite possibly from categorically different kinds of women. Of course, if you have a good male physique to show off, you might want to combine a shot of that with you, say, playing Frisbee with your dog down by the ocean. There's abs, animals, and something interesting all in one shot. That's one profile picture, and two additional pictures. I'll tell you this. I have experimented with ALL SORT of combinations - including some with tons and tons of pictures - and this one has worked best most consistently. The only one that's beaten it has been when I've set up test profiles with a sole profile picture of one very physically attractive male model, and no other pictures. This one's worked very well on POF If girls look at your extra pictures and think, "Oh. He was cute in his main picture," then don't include them. For the rest of us with more pedestrian looks: When I had professional pictures done, my results on Plenty of Fish and every other dating website and social networking website I was on and used for dating went through the roof. I've heard similar stories from a lot of guys doing online. Why do these make such a difference? Part of it's the quality of the image itself; good cameras take good pictures. But a bigger part is the photographer: A good photographer can take a flattering picture of you even if you aren't all that flattering to behold normally. Put together:. Where do you find such a photographer? What if you don't have the money for a professional shoot? That typically includes several wardrobe changes and about an hour of shoot time or so. But there's a hidden secret for getting your pictures taken absolutely FREE of charge. Know what it is? In most major cities, there are far more people who want to become professional photographers than there are professional photographers. And the people who are still working on their careers in photography work on these mainly by building up their portfolios; that is to say, putting together collections of images they've taken of various models people. In exchange for your modeling services, and your permission to use your photographs in their portfolios, they will normally offer you finished versions of a bunch of the best pictures they take of you free of charge. The easiest way to find aspiring photographers looking for models to take pictures of in exchange for copies of those pictures is to head over to Craig's List and browse through the "Gigs" section, "Talent" subsection - what you're looking for are gigs labeled "TFP" "Time for Pictures" or "TFCD" "Time for CD" - a CD with your photographs burned onto it. Remember that YOU are the "model" here. Then just write to some photographers, send them copies of the best photographs you currently have of you, and wait to hear back. These posts tend to get more requests from people wanting free pictures than the photographers offering them can serve, but if you keep replying to different gigs for a week or two, you'll find someone who will take your pictures and provide you with copies. The website Model Mayhem is another way of finding photographers willing to take pictures to build their portfolios, but it helps if you already have some professional pictures done But still - it's pretty important. Many women will NEVER read your profile when deciding whether or not to respond to your first message. They will only ever see your:. A lot of the women who write back to you will not check out your profile until AFTER they get their second or third messages from you. The ones who check your profile out before responding the first time are very often ones who've already decided that they think they're interested in you, too. In other words, what you're doing with your profile is reassuring her she made the right call to be interested in you , rather than trying to win over someone who's on the fence about you. That should color how you set your profile up quite a bit. I know what you're thinking, the first time you open up that profile editor on POF: Remember, women don't go nuts for guys who just lay out everything about themselves for the whole world to read like a boring factsheet. They prefer men who are:. If you go for the "Hey, I'm Mr. Perfect, and here's everything to know about me! Your challenge: Sound hard? Let's add some rules that will make it sound harder but actually be easier:. Can you violate some of these rules? I've had profiles do very well that came out to about three or four paragraphs often broken down further into smaller one- or two-sentence paragraphs for a total of 5 or 6 line breaks. But the majority of my best profiles - and the majority of the best men's profiles I've seen - have been two paragraphs. If you need it, you can add ONE sentence after the second paragraph. That's it. That's your challenge. How often have you read a girl's profile and thought to yourself, "If only she would tell me what her favorite food was, and what movies she liked best"? This guy's total message count ever? He's obviously trying to change the world by telling other people they need to start doing what he wants them to do, and is otherwise just depressing One doth not showcase boring things like 'favorite TV shows' or 'favorite songs' or 'jobs' that everybody has and no one has ever gotten excited about finding out someone else shares in the history of Plenty of Fish. 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Still living in your home country and will mostly be meeting your countrywomen? No problem The next contender after this is having just gotten out of a long-term relationship. Again, you're a catch with some potential, and there's a very valid reason why you're there. Why are these items so good to include in your profile? But hardly anyone can approach in real life. You can subcommunicate your REAL value when you approach, not just how pretty you look in pictures. Think about your attempts at Tinder. Of course not. Start with my book Primal Seduction , and go from there. Male thirst is not going anywhere, and neither is the skewed sexual marketplace. Getting angry about it will do you no good and will make you bitter. Check out my 5 hour video series The Secret Society. Watch the short video below to learn more about it. She is the female manifestation of their low self esteems. Think about that shit for a second. I feel bad for her then. Red Pill Issues. The results were shocking! I gave her a repugnant personality, and very little detail in her profile. Meet DaisyDukes Perhaps Daisy redeemds herself with an excellent profile? Remember, Daisy was not online during the 24 hour experiment. Daisys profile had literally hundreds of profile views: Messages Received In total, Daisy received 38 messages during the 24 hour period without ever logging in. Look at the timestamps on these messages just as I logged in: The Messages: What did they say? If Daisy messaged back and arranged a date, they would turn up. Conclusion of the profile experiment: They were angry.. If guys put into their profiles all the shallow crap that women put into theirs, dating sites would all shut down tomorrow. Your email address will not be published. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Skip to content Recently, I decided to search online as a male seeking female from the age of 25 — The Peek-A-Boo This is a profile photo where there is a physical object such as a cell phone, hat, another person or hand partially covering your face. The Dirty Cam Shot Although men are quite visual when it comes to women, they can also be very judgmental. The Hangover I describe these photos as the ones of you ladies lying in bed, without make up on, hair unkempt and it looks like you took a selfie of yourself rolling out of bed. The Shades Shot I know some of you want to look cool on your main profile photo, but hiding behind your sunglasses is not the best or top choice as your main profile photo. The Alcoholic Can you guess what photo this is? Posted by Carmelia Ray Carmelia Ray is an online dating and matchmaking expert with over 22 years of experience in the dating industry. From A Dating Site Employee. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published..

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Plenty of Fish - Hot pof profiles chances are you Hot pof profiles know - is an out-and-out treasure trove of young, cool, attractive girls who want to meet cool, sexy guys and Thing is, it's a free dating site, which means it's open to the masses And the ones who stick around?

Grizzled POF dating veterans who cut through newbie online dating hopefuls like female paramilitary troopers trained at mercilessly crushing and cannibalizing the unready and Hot pof profiles. In this article, I'm going to take you through what I learned in four 4 years of using Plenty of Fish to meet, date, and sleep with tons of new girls, including some of the hottest girls on POF in Southern California. So sit back, relax, and let's get you doing what most of the rest of the online dating crowd can't do: Your profile picture and, to a lesser degree, your other pictures.

Most people when you tell them this think or say, "Yeah, sure, I click my picture's important," and then they put up some mediocre-quality profile picture and get all upset that they aren't getting any dates off the site. No - your picture is everything. If you don't Hot pof profiles a good one, you will not get girls on Plenty of Fish.

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Instead, it's eyeballs-only - what you see is what you get. That means that looks do matter a lot more on Plenty of Fish than Hot pof profiles do in real life, where there are plenty of other things involved in assessing attractiveness. In space, no one can hear you scream, and on POF, no one can feel your sexiness. Hot pof profiles photos and the words in your profile, and that's it. Look at the difference in men's odds of getting a response from women based on their profile photos: Clearly, non-smiling, eye-contact-away pictures are the best pictures you can use.

That's pictures that look more like these:. My all-time best performing profile picture catches me just as I'm pulling on a suit jacket, Hot pof profiles down and away a bit, not too dissimilar to the guy in the image on the top right.

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You can subcommunicate your REAL value when you approach, not just how pretty you look in pictures. Think about your attempts at Tinder. Of course not. Start with my book Primal Seduction , and go from there. Male thirst is not going anywhere, and neither is the skewed sexual marketplace. Getting angry about it will do you no good and will make you bitter. Check out my 5 hour video series The Secret Society. Watch the short video below to learn more about it. She is the female manifestation of their low self esteems. Think about that shit for a second. I feel bad for her then. Red Pill Issues. The results were shocking! If guys put into their profiles all the shallow crap that women put into theirs, dating sites would all shut down tomorrow. Your email address will not be published. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Skip to content Recently, I decided to search online as a male seeking female from the age of 25 — The Peek-A-Boo This is a profile photo where there is a physical object such as a cell phone, hat, another person or hand partially covering your face. The Dirty Cam Shot Although men are quite visual when it comes to women, they can also be very judgmental. The Hangover I describe these photos as the ones of you ladies lying in bed, without make up on, hair unkempt and it looks like you took a selfie of yourself rolling out of bed. The Shades Shot I know some of you want to look cool on your main profile photo, but hiding behind your sunglasses is not the best or top choice as your main profile photo. The Alcoholic Can you guess what photo this is? Posted by Carmelia Ray Carmelia Ray is an online dating and matchmaking expert with over 22 years of experience in the dating industry. From A Dating Site Employee. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published. In the second sentence, pick out an attribute of hers from her profile; something that isn't "beautiful" or "fun. You're including a smiley mid-message to let her know it's all fun and games, not one of those weird over-serious messages she gets from a lot of guys. They refer to things in her profile, which makes them clearly NOT form letters to just be ignored. The fact that you like cats and sushi drove that one home for me. I've been under a rock for a while, but it's time to start exploring. The response rate you'll get to a message like this is far lower , but the initial responses you'll get are far warmer than what you'll get with the other template. Essentially, a girl read this, and says, "Well, the message is only slightly interesting," then if she's somewhat interested checks out your profile and other pictures. If she likes what she sees, she writes back. In effect, you trade quantity for quality - but make sure your pictures and profile are out of this world first. These are crucial for getting responses to this one they're much less so with the fun message. Now, you've just got to get her talking a bit more about her, and then ask her to move that conversation to a date or a phone call. Even if she's a heavy writer and starts writing you novels, don't follow suit. Eventually she'll feel like it's too much work to respond to YOUR novels, and stop writing. Keep it short and interesting, and mostly about HER, and you'll keep her writing back. Some people like moving things to instant messaging; I never use this for various reasons , but if it suits your style perhaps try it out. How do you ask for a phone number? I like to do it like this:. I'm at - call me or text me your and what your schedule's like this week. She may also elect to send you her message on POF - this is fine too. You're basically giving her options on how to get in contact with you via phone - she can make first contact, or she can give you her number and ask YOU to make first contact. And that's all there is to it. See these articles on your options for setting up the first date and handling phone calls and text messaging:. So there you have it. Just shy of 10, words on kicking some major butt at getting tons of dates with loads of beautiful women off of Plenty of Fish. POF is a wonderful place to meet new girls. Because it's so big, the turnover is quite high; older members leave the site, and new women sign up. The new girls are often the ones you want to go for first. The majority of women don't stay on POF more than a few weeks at most, and many of the ones who stay longer become extremely picky not good for you, even if you're damn near perfect , and often use the site more for emotional validation than they do for lining up dates there are the exceptions, though - the high sex drive girls who love novelty and use the site for a constant parade of fresh meat - but they're in the minority. Think of building a great profile and getting the right messages down as a long-term investment; once it's built, you'll be using it for months or more to come. You can meet some beautiful, wonderful, sensational women on Plenty of Fish - and now you've got all the tools to do so, too. Chase woke up one day in tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends plus plenty of failures along the way , he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System. Skip to main content. The most important thing in your POF profile by far? What Makes for a Good Profile Picture Online, you don't have things like body language , nonverbal communication , or even a good male scent to help tip the scales in your favor. So what makes for a good POF profile photo? Compare that to: That's pictures that look more like these: Why do women prefer their men looking off and to the side? So she looks away and doesn't write back. I guess we men just like to know our girl is interested in us before we spend much time on her. POF Photo Tricks In addition to not smiling and looking away no eye contact , there are five 5 other things you can do to spice up the pictures you'll use on Plenty of Fish: That looks like this: A few tips: Don't have more than one picture like this, or it looks intentional Make sure the pictures look affectionate but ambiguous - e. How many photographs should you use on Plenty of Fish? I suggest two "profile-like" pictures, and only one interesting picture. Put together: A good outfit with some good fashion A great, sexy hairstyle A good facial hair style Then let him do his thing. How important is it that you have a great profile? They will only ever see your: Username Picture Message A lot of the women who write back to you will not check out your profile until AFTER they get their second or third messages from you. Basically, once they've already decided that they think they're interested in you. Shorter is Better I know what you're thinking, the first time you open up that profile editor on POF: No worries though They prefer men who are: Let's add some rules that will make it sound harder but actually be easier: Must be two paragraphs maximum Must include multiple interesting things about you that AREN'T bragging Must leave your reader with more questions in her head than answers This is because your profile does three things for you: It reassures her you're a cool, interesting, and most of all, NORMAL person It gets her emotionally involved with you and intrigued by you It gives her a bunch of things she can ask you about or talk to you about Can you violate some of these rules? But before I go giving you some examples, let's talk about being interesting. Bad Profiles and the Profile Commandments How often have you read a girl's profile and thought to yourself, "If only she would tell me what her favorite food was, and what movies she liked best"? Probably never, right? Negative on that one too, isn't it? So why do so many guys write stuff like: Really into country music and line-dancing. Do it every chance I get. On weekends I like to do some cooking; if you've never had fried ravioli, a dish I picked up in my travels to St. Louis, be prepared for me to expand your culinary world. Then there's the ones like: I'm not looking for someone perfect, but I'm just tired of meeting women who are fake. Be real for a change, stop trying to be something you're not, and stop insisting that men be perfect If you're a real woman and you want to meet a real man, send me a message. And of course there's the ones like: So if you're tired of all these other bedroom disappointments and ready to have the night of your life, message me, hot stuff! One doth not showcase boring things like 'favorite TV shows' or 'favorite songs' or 'jobs' that everybody has and no one has ever gotten excited about finding out someone else shares in the history of Plenty of Fish One doth not be depressing, rude, insulting, or sound as if he is about to quit on life and retreat into his parents' basement, where he shall abide for the remainder of his time on Earth One doth not write about his sexual prowess, conquests, or bedroom or woman-getting abilities of any kind, lest he be thought compensating for being in possession of a remarkably small penis by all women encountering his profile The Most Important Thing in Your Profile Best thing you can do to get as many women writing back as possible on your profile? There are the exceptions. And the person who is "new in town and just looking to get settled" is the largest of these. It's because I've just moved to the country It's because I've just moved to the city It's because I've just gotten out of a relationship Killer Profile Examples So we know that: Your profile needs to be brief You want to intrigue her and leave her wanting to know more You want to raise lots of questions - not answer them You want to stay positive and avoid dreary negative stuff You want to steer far clear of trying to talk about being a sexual dynamo You want to let her know WHY you're on POF Here's what a good standard profile looks like: Here's what it's doing: The next sentence, about people met on POF before, establish preselection and social proof; he's not one of these bitter people who meets only crazies off of the Internet - in fact, he's had success here before, which means he must be attractive enough to get some girls The first two sentences of the second paragraph flesh out his personality a bit, as an artist and an adventurer. It's an amplifier, rather than something that will draw attention to you in its own right. Here's another variant on a profile I've used with some good effect - this one requires you have a bit more interesting things to throw out there about yourself: This one establishes our hero as: Direct and straightforward - strong traits he gives you his name, tells you where he's from, but it's sort of an aside to the main message of the sentence An out-of-towner, but he's thrilled to be here local folks who love their town want to make sure they're spending time with others who similarly like it An upbeat individual who drinks life in "absolutely in love" Has a good career, probably, but doesn't boast about it or try to use it to gain points; "my career is in numbers" is the kind of very vague thing that usually only a very wealthy individual who doesn't want to admit to being VP of a Fortune company will say, so it builds some intrigue as to whether this guy is a rich guy or not and exactly what it is that he does Talking about the kind of conversation he wants to have makes it clear he won't be talking about boring stuff like work, sports, the weather, etc. Other Considerations: Headlines and Details Aside from your profile itself, there are a few other considerations that are very important to you building a profile with big impact: What you're going for in a headline: Different Engaging Colorful words or phrasing Makes her want to click on it Some examples of godawful crappy headlines: Scuba boy looking for scuba girl Looking for my [anything] Amazing guy right here! Cool, honest, warm-hearted person Ready to rock your world Now, here are examples of headlines that stand out: Life, passion, adventure, and dreams of Mexico A short walk from a land of intrigue Can you guess who I am? Bad Ass Not Mr. Maybe Mr. Wrong The guy your girlfriends try to steal Ask yourself if it's time for an upgrade I'm all kinds of wrong for you It would never work out between us Stop drooling, it's just a profile Generally, I've found that "bad ass" nets you the most clicks and messages. However, if it doesn't work with your profile, you shouldn't use it. Other Profile Details Other profile details I'd recommend you largely leave blank. For the "First Date" section, you can write something sleek, like: Now onto the fun part: I pulled the plug on the account, and sifted through the messages. The kinds of messages I received were: Give me your phone number and let's talk about it" A handful of guys offering the best sex ever enjoyed by anybody in the history of life on Earth, or telling me what a naughty girl I was and how they were going to discipline me with their cocks Out of all those messages I read, I don't think there's a single one I would've responded back to had I actually been a girl. Writing a Gripping Subject Line Your first order of business with any online dating message writing is writing a gripping subject line. What's gripping? Well, here's what it isn't: Hey there Hello [username]! You have the most beautiful eyes I loved your profile! It's crazy how much we have in common This includes: I'm confused I'm unsure about one thing One thing jolts me You know what? You know what surprises about you? You totally strike me as She's noticed your picture and it looks good? She's clicked on your message and started reading? And they've got to show him theirs if they want to see his. Back to writing messages. So if you can't kiss her butt, yell at her, or send her naked pictures, what CAN you do? Four words: I like writing messages like this: These kinds of messages do four 4 things for you: In this case, you can pull off something like this: Lining Up Dates Once she's replied to your initial message, the hardest part is over. I like to do it like this: See these articles on your options for setting up the first date and handling phone calls and text messaging:.

Well, I can tell you this: When you're staring at them, they tend to Hot pof profiles avert their Hot pof profiles, not wanting to be seen looking. Gut instinct? She feels like she's getting to check you out Hot pof profiles explore you without you knowing when you're looking away. While the photo with you staring dead at her feels higher pressure And just in case you're curious, for men, the trend is reversed - women making eye contact and flirty faces get significantly higher response from us fellas than women averting their gazes do.

In addition to not smiling and looking away no eye contactthere are five 5 other things you can do Hot pof profiles spice up the pictures you'll use on Plenty of Fish:.

This is a general picture-taking rule that you want to use in all of your pictures. When selecting pictures, make sure you pick pictures with contrast. Plenty of Fish is blue, white, black, and gray. Pick pictures - and especially profile pictures - that visually stand out against this backdrop. You want clear, crisp, and vibrant, not dull, hazy, and blent in.

Notice 2? Don't your eyes go right there immediately? Regardless of whether she's your Asshole photo gallery or not, you notice her because her picture isn't boring or low quality-looking like the other three pictures are.

She avoids "profile blindness" by having a picture that stands out from the pack. She's also making that flirty face that Hot pof profiles respond best to. You want pictures that pop as much as 'someone hacked my other account's does minus the flirty face to be your profile pictures - and, ideally, to be all the rest of your pictures, too.

Picture with an almost-cropped out girl in Hot pof profiles. Photos of you with girls in them have been shown to perform worse on click here sites. Because a girl's going to look at the girl in your picture and immediately either decide a. So how, then, do you come up with a way of taking advantage of the benefits of preselection - that powerful attraction force to beat all attraction forces that states that women want most the men that other women also want?

Back inI came up with the perfect solution for it: That looks like this:. You're going for the "cropped as well Hot pof profiles I could" look in the image - e. A few tips:. Make sure the pictures look affectionate but ambiguous - e. Pick a photo you still look good in, too - not Hot pof profiles any old thing. Some of the hottest, sexiest girls I've met off of online dating I've met with this type of photograph up.

I've even had girls specifically ask about Hot pof profiles Picture of you doing something really cool. That could be on some wonder of the world my profiles have always included a picture of me on Machu Picchu or at Angkor Watsurfing, playing guitar, skateboarding, singing on a microphone on-stage What you're going for: Picture of you with an animal.

That OkCupid data review found that the men's profile picture themes that received the highest number of responses from women of any photo theme were those of men with animals. No kidding. If you want the highest possible number of responses from women, get a picture with an animal. Guesses as Hot pof profiles why? Research has shown that Hot pof profiles are pretty much born with a high dose of empathy, Hot pof profiles for men this has to be learned one way of learning it, interestingly enough, is by taking care of a pet.

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But, according to that OkCupid study, being shirtless and showing off your muscles in your profile picture nets you almost as many responses from women as a picture of you with an animal though quite possibly from categorically different kinds of women.

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Of course, if Hot pof profiles have a good male physique to show off, you might want to combine a shot of that with you, say, playing Frisbee with your dog down by the ocean. There's abs, animals, and something interesting all in one shot. That's one profile picture, and two additional pictures. I'll tell you Hot pof profiles.

I have experimented with ALL SORT of combinations - including some with tons and tons of pictures - and this one has worked best most consistently. The Hot pof profiles one that's beaten it has been when I've set up test profiles with a sole profile picture of one very physically attractive male model, and no other pictures.

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He was cute in his main picture," then don't include Hot pof profiles. For the rest of us with more pedestrian looks: When I had professional pictures done, my results on Plenty of Fish and every other dating website and social networking website I was on and used for dating went through the roof. I've heard similar stories from a lot of guys doing online. Why do these make such a difference? Part of it's the quality of the image itself; good cameras take good pictures.

But a bigger part is the photographer: A good photographer can take a flattering picture of you even if you aren't all Hot pof profiles flattering to behold normally. Put together:. Where do you find such a photographer? What if you don't have the money for a professional shoot?

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Sexy venra Watch Video Constan?a porno. I hate to say it…But I think a fair proportion of those men who messaged Daisy had every intention of pursuing it further. Even in the few examples I showed, the guys are not terrible. Look at some more examples. I just picked these 2 at random. There are many more: I am astonished at how many guys sincerely pursued Daisy. I had no idea male thirst was anywhere near as bad as this. To entertain sleeping with a girl like that.. And yet, large numbers of normal — good looking men earnestly pursued her. It hardly bears thinking about. When I posted the video on Youtube of the Tinder Trap stunt, the comments I got far exceed a normal recent video. There are a lot of great articles on this site — read them. Success IS still possible — even off online dating. But overall, you just have to cold approach. There is really no other way of cutting through all the male attention that girls get nowadays. A good , strong approach where you make an immediate impression, create sexual tension will put you way in front of the competition. Well, any fool can send a message online or photoshop his Tinder pics. But hardly anyone can approach in real life. You can subcommunicate your REAL value when you approach, not just how pretty you look in pictures. Think about your attempts at Tinder. Of course not. Start with my book Primal Seduction , and go from there. Male thirst is not going anywhere, and neither is the skewed sexual marketplace. Getting angry about it will do you no good and will make you bitter. Check out my 5 hour video series The Secret Society. Watch the short video below to learn more about it. If guys put into their profiles all the shallow crap that women put into theirs, dating sites would all shut down tomorrow. Your email address will not be published. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Skip to content Recently, I decided to search online as a male seeking female from the age of 25 — The Peek-A-Boo This is a profile photo where there is a physical object such as a cell phone, hat, another person or hand partially covering your face. The Dirty Cam Shot Although men are quite visual when it comes to women, they can also be very judgmental. The Hangover I describe these photos as the ones of you ladies lying in bed, without make up on, hair unkempt and it looks like you took a selfie of yourself rolling out of bed. The Shades Shot I know some of you want to look cool on your main profile photo, but hiding behind your sunglasses is not the best or top choice as your main profile photo. The Alcoholic Can you guess what photo this is? Posted by Carmelia Ray Carmelia Ray is an online dating and matchmaking expert with over 22 years of experience in the dating industry. From A Dating Site Employee. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published. Where on the other side of the country is he from, exactly? The next sentence, about people met on POF before, establish preselection and social proof; he's not one of these bitter people who meets only crazies off of the Internet - in fact, he's had success here before, which means he must be attractive enough to get some girls. The first two sentences of the second paragraph flesh out his personality a bit, as an artist and an adventurer. This narrows the field down a bit; women who aren't in search of passion and adventure will be turned off The final sentence of the profile is screening; it lets the reader know that he has standards and is looking for something specific; but the standards are sufficiently vague here that they function like a cold read , and just about every woman who read this will say, "Wow - that's me, exactly! This profile is not going to win you any awards, nor is it going to get you a lot of girls messaging you on their own. What it does do is provide a solid support for your pictures and first message, so that a girl who's intrigued, on checking out your profile, leaves even more intrigued. Here's another variant on a profile I've used with some good effect - this one requires you have a bit more interesting things to throw out there about yourself:. My name's David, I've just moved to town from Philadelphia, and am soaking in all the palm trees and beaches and am absolutely in love. A bit about me: I'm hoping to find someone on here who enjoys a good conversation about people, relationships, what makes you tick, what makes me tick, anything interesting along those lines - human beings are my special fascination. I like a good spot of tea and am a bit of a sucker for dessert - so if we go out, or if you're showing me about town, we'll need to be careful about those dessert places if I'm to keep my waistline nice and trim. This one's obvious a different feel from the first - this is the typical "high value guy" profile, in contrast to our "mysterious man with a troubled past" profile from before. If you're younger, "mysterious man" likely suits you better; if you're older, "high value guy" likely does, instead. Direct and straightforward - strong traits he gives you his name, tells you where he's from, but it's sort of an aside to the main message of the sentence. An out-of-towner, but he's thrilled to be here local folks who love their town want to make sure they're spending time with others who similarly like it. Has a good career, probably, but doesn't boast about it or try to use it to gain points; "my career is in numbers" is the kind of very vague thing that usually only a very wealthy individual who doesn't want to admit to being VP of a Fortune company will say, so it builds some intrigue as to whether this guy is a rich guy or not and exactly what it is that he does. Talking about the kind of conversation he wants to have makes it clear he won't be talking about boring stuff like work, sports, the weather, etc. Saying he likes a "good spot of tea" makes him sound different "Is he British? THIS guy I can relate to! Quantity goes up; quality goes down. Some of these girls you will be able to change the vibe with and steer it toward something more intimate; some of them you never will, because they came out to be entertained by you, not to be seduced. That said, it's still an effective profile for meeting LOTS of girls in a hurry and taking a healthy chunk of them as lovers and as girlfriends; for that one, see this post I've made about it on the discussion boards: Chase's Guide to Online Dating Aside from your profile itself, there are a few other considerations that are very important to you building a profile with big impact: Sorry about that. Your headline is arguably more important than your profile content itself. It's your advertisement. In the world of writing articles on the Internet, common advice is to spend half as much time writing your title as you do writing the actual article itself. Basically, anything that is not sultry, arrogant, or mysterious is out. If you sound platonic just friends , raunchy turns men on, scares off women , or lovelorn needy, desperate guy who fails with women , she'll be turned off. I recommend testing out different headlines. If you're really an experimenter, I'd recommend testing out different profiles with different headlines and pictures in multiple different cities you don't ever visit first and finding what works best, and then taking the best results of these and using them in your hometown. Other profile details I'd recommend you largely leave blank. Long profiles with lots of details look like something you put a great deal of time into constructing; thus, readers of your profile assume that you're not a very in-demand man with little free time on his hands to spend, say, chasing down new women. Even though it really takes you only a few extra minutes, it doesn't matter; this is the psychological effect seeing a bunch more details has. She assumes you got excited at the opportunity to share all these things about yourself with Internet strangers, which strong guys with lots of girls and abundant friends do not. Put either something generic in your profile e. But whatever you write here, make sure you suggest something specific. Far too many women ask guys what they want to do on dates, only to have those guys reply with, "I don't know; what do you want to do?! If she asked you, it isn't because it's a test, or because she's being nice; it's because she doesn't want the burden of having to figure this out. You're the man; you must lead. Show her dating you will be a relaxing, enjoyable, decision-free experience for her, and you'll get positive responses from women. If you're breathtakingly gorgeous-looking, you may get a handful of messages to your profile based on looks alone. But on Plenty of Fish, the messaging done by women to men - even the most stunningly attractive of men - is far less than what it is on a number of other dating sites. No matter how great your pictures are and how tight your profile is, you're more or less going to have to be doing the initiating yourself. There are loads and loads of people on it, because there are so many people on it broader pool of mates to draw from and because it's free. That means lots of women for you to reach out to for dates When I first started playing around with online dating in , I went in with something of an entitlement mentality: That's great and all, except Because online is a whole 'nother ballpark. If you're good at strutting your stuff in person, the women on POF don't know that. And if girls are practically clawing your clothes off every time you step outside the door in real life, the women on POF don't know that. The only thing they know are pictures, headlines, maybe your profile if they even read it If you want to stand out from the crowd, you need good messages, and you need good subject lines for those messages. I set up a female profile on Plenty of Fish a few years back, just to see what the response was like. I chose a pretty blonde girl for this account's profile picture, and then I wrote her profile as basically the meanest, pickiest bitch on POF In a manner of 10 hours or so, my snobby, entitled young female alter ego received 40 messages from potential suitors. And the messages kept coming. I went to bed, and woke up the next day to find another 20 messages had filtered in overnight. Form messages from men who obviously hadn't read the profile, and were obviously mass-spamming any girl who looked reasonably attractive to them. I would LOVE to go to a punk music concert!!! A few witty retorts "Look here honey, you think you're some hot stuff, but in case you weren't paying attention, punk is so s. Several guys just throwing their phone numbers out there, or asking to get a number back "Oh, you like punk? Give me your phone number and let's talk about it". A handful of guys offering the best sex ever enjoyed by anybody in the history of life on Earth, or telling me what a naughty girl I was and how they were going to discipline me with their cocks. Out of all those messages I read, I don't think there's a single one I would've responded back to had I actually been a girl. Your first order of business with any online dating message writing is writing a gripping subject line. She gets 30 to 50 messages a day on Plenty of Fish. Maybe her first day or so on there she opens every message, but once she's been on the site more than a few days, she's mostly just skimming through for interesting-looking subject lines at that point. Fail to make your subject line interesting, and you fail to even get a message read - let alone a reply back. Here's what gripping is: The best of these I've found are subject lines that start a statement but don't finish it. This includes:. What you're going for here is 1. NOT making her wonder if the message is going to be from a hater who's bitter that she's out of her league and is trying to bring her down e. These are just some I've used. I'd strongly encourage you come up with your own intriguing lead-ins , rather than using these verbatim But these far and away do the job of getting girls to at least open up and read the contents of your messages better than anything else I've seen or used, because they're different and because a girl's natural reaction is to see them and say, "What? I have to know! The hard part's almost over. The only thing left for you to do is get her to write you back. To do that, you'll need a good first message that ISN'T as terrible as I've never been able to figure it out. Do men on secret Internet dating forums somewhere I've never come across urge one another to send random women penis pictures as some kind of secretive rite of passage? I always just assumed it was guys addicted to porn who just assumed women must find nudie pictures of strangers' packages equally as titillating as they do I guess? Anyway, it's no more effective on POF than it is walking up to a pretty girl in a nightclub or on the street or at work or in class and whipping out your erection there is, either. In other words, not only does this work out, but it creeps women the heck out and sends them running for the hills. James Bond does not send penis pictures, even if women ask him for them. If women want to see James Bond's penis, they must come meet him in person, and in private. Assuming you're casting the net wide , to get as many women as possible writing back to you, you want to focus on sending a message that comes across cool, socially savvy, and easy to write back to. BODY I've noticed people who like cats and sushi have strange affinities for all things hipster. What you're going for with these types of messages is for her to smile, roll her eyes, and go, "Oh my GOD that is so ridiculous! She's already doing online dating right now she's logged into POF and reading through her messages, after all , so this plays right into what you're doing. The only thing you need to change with these message templates are the items in bold. However, if you say, "I hear people who like running and whack-a-mole," it IS funny, because those things are totally unrelated In the second sentence, pick out an attribute of hers from her profile; something that isn't "beautiful" or "fun. You're including a smiley mid-message to let her know it's all fun and games, not one of those weird over-serious messages she gets from a lot of guys. They refer to things in her profile, which makes them clearly NOT form letters to just be ignored. The fact that you like cats and sushi drove that one home for me. I've been under a rock for a while, but it's time to start exploring. The response rate you'll get to a message like this is far lower , but the initial responses you'll get are far warmer than what you'll get with the other template. Essentially, a girl read this, and says, "Well, the message is only slightly interesting," then if she's somewhat interested checks out your profile and other pictures. If she likes what she sees, she writes back. In effect, you trade quantity for quality - but make sure your pictures and profile are out of this world first. These are crucial for getting responses to this one they're much less so with the fun message. Now, you've just got to get her talking a bit more about her, and then ask her to move that conversation to a date or a phone call. Even if she's a heavy writer and starts writing you novels, don't follow suit. Eventually she'll feel like it's too much work to respond to YOUR novels, and stop writing. Keep it short and interesting, and mostly about HER, and you'll keep her writing back. Some people like moving things to instant messaging; I never use this for various reasons , but if it suits your style perhaps try it out. How do you ask for a phone number? I like to do it like this:. I'm at - call me or text me your and what your schedule's like this week. She may also elect to send you her message on POF - this is fine too. You're basically giving her options on how to get in contact with you via phone - she can make first contact, or she can give you her number and ask YOU to make first contact. And that's all there is to it. See these articles on your options for setting up the first date and handling phone calls and text messaging:. So there you have it. Just shy of 10, words on kicking some major butt at getting tons of dates with loads of beautiful women off of Plenty of Fish. POF is a wonderful place to meet new girls. Because it's so big, the turnover is quite high; older members leave the site, and new women sign up. The new girls are often the ones you want to go for first. The majority of women don't stay on POF more than a few weeks at most, and many of the ones who stay longer become extremely picky not good for you, even if you're damn near perfect , and often use the site more for emotional validation than they do for lining up dates there are the exceptions, though - the high sex drive girls who love novelty and use the site for a constant parade of fresh meat - but they're in the minority. Think of building a great profile and getting the right messages down as a long-term investment; once it's built, you'll be using it for months or more to come. You can meet some beautiful, wonderful, sensational women on Plenty of Fish - and now you've got all the tools to do so, too. Chase woke up one day in tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends plus plenty of failures along the way , he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System. Skip to main content..

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